Although there are several forms of online support for those who have been widowed (chat rooms, bulletin boards, etc.), our favorite is
GriefNet.org. This non-profit site offers almost 50 specialized email support groups as well as two web sites.
According to the GriefNet site:
"Our groups operate 24-hours/day, 365 days/year. Members participate when they wish and are able to, not at a set time. When one member of a group sends an email message to the group, everyone in the group receives a copy. This allows many people to respond with love and caring to the thoughts and feelings of an individual, day and night, year-round. Since 1994 these groups have helped thousands of people around the world deal safely with their grief."
We also like the fact that there is a mental health professional in charge:
"All groups are monitored by trained volunteers who make sure that the groups are running smoothly. Overall supervision is provided by
Cendra Lynn, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and traumatologist."
A sampling of GriefNet’s email groups includes:
Grief-Widowed is a support group for anyone who has lost a partner or a spouse at any age, at any time, of any sexual orientation. If/when subscribers find a need for a more focused list, that can be created.
Widowed-with-Kids is a group for those who have lost a partner or spouse who still have children living at home. This is a place where the unique problems of parenting when widowed can be discussed.
Grief-Widowed Moving On is a support group for anyone who has lost a partner or a spouse at any age, at any time, of any sexual orientation, and who has moved on beyond the first raw stages of dealing with that loss. This list was formed at the request of people in grief-widowed group whose issues have become different from those who are newly bereaved. Some persons subscribe to both lists.
Grief-Men is a support group for bereaved men who especially want to talk to other men about their loss.
Young Widowed is a support group for those aged 40 or under who have lost a spouse or partner. Please note: the age cut-off is only suggested; those who feel themselves to fit into this category are welcome.
Widowed Gay is for gays who have lost a partner to death or whose partner is currently dying. Gays are also welcome in our other widowed groups and while we have never had a homophobic incident, this group was created in response to a special request from some gay widowed members.
There are also support groups for children and teens:
Kids-to-kids, a support group for children ages 12 and under.
K2K-Teens, support for ages 13 through 18.
1 comment:
I lost my husband less than a year ago. I'm lost and hurting. I have a teenage son that I have to be brave for, but it just hurt so bad
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