In the days and weeks following your spouse’s death, shock and exhaustion can leave you vulnerable to certain people who are difficult to avoid.
Usually disguised as well-meaning family and friends, these creatures often unknowingly say or do upsetting things.
Here are some tips for identifying them and protecting yourself:
1. Platitude Ghouls
Spot them: Though well-intentioned, these creatures don’t think before spewing out insensitive remarks such as, “It’s all for the best”, “Aren’t you over it yet?”, “Don’t worry – you’ll find someone else” or “ I went through exactly the same thing during my divorce.”
Ward them off by: Changing the subject.
2. Gruesome Grabbers
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